So you met this guy, he seems good enough, he scores high on your date-ability scorecard and you cannot wait to take things to the next level, but he seems to be holding back in some way.
You are now wondering what could be wrong because while he acts and speaks all nice, he keeps it casual yet you want to get serious with him.
I hate to say it, but the problem could be that he is not just that into you, and here is how to find out:
He does not call
Girl, if the man does not make an effort to call, text or email to ask you how you are or return your texts, he is just not that into you.
In this century, people carry their phones to the washrooms and people get knocked down by cars because they are crossing roads while using their phones.
They did not forget their phone in the other room, you are just not worth the trouble.
He does not make time for you.
A man in love or in lust, whatever goes, will want to see you again and again for as long as the feelings hold.
So if you are the one who is always asking to meet up early into the relationship, hit the road, honey.
He’s always on his phone when you’re together
You also use your phone when you are not interested in a conversation, true?
Only calls when he is bored and needs you to come over for a few minutes
You know when that hotline bling, it can only mean one thing.
Hesitant about being seen together in public
Meaning: There are more girlfriends ‘outchea’, and ‘prolly’ a wife who will see the two and cause drama.
Not keen on introducing you to his friends
If I had a nice car my friends will be the first to know, and that’s just a car. So why would I feel hesitant about introducing my new flame to my friends, unless, of course, she is not up to my standards? Or perhaps I am not proud of her, and I do not want anyone to know I am dating…
If he really liked you would not be reading this
Guys are really bad at masking their feelings, so if they really did genuinely like you it would be pretty obvious.
He wouldn’t be giving you mixed signals. He would not ignore you. He would not be afraid if associating himself with you.
It is that simple, really.