Vanessa Mdee: Why I dumped my boyfriend


Award-winning Tanzanian singer Vanessa Mdee says irregular communication was the reason she broke up with her ex-partner Jux.

Vanessa Mdee says she would send a text message to Jux; and instead of him replying the moment he reads the message, Jux would ignore her or choose to send a feedback several hours later.

Vanessa Mdee says such a habit subtly indicated she was no longer needed by her boyfriend. Mdee says, when the habit proved persistent, she was left with no other choice but to end the relationship.

Speaking on Tanzania’s Chill na Sky show recently, Mdee said: “Sometimes I would send him (Jux) a text message at 6am but he would reply at 12 noon. If the platform of sending the text was WhatsApp, I would see two blue ticks on our chat thread, which indicate the recipient of the message actually read the text – and at what time he did so.

“Most of the instances, he read the texts a few minutes after I had sent them. Sometimes I would enquire if he had eaten, and he would give me a curt response. Such habits communicated that our relationship was undergoing a turbulent phase,” said Vanessa Mdee.

The Cash Madame hit-maker, nonetheless, says she and Jux are still friends despite the break up.

The two went separate ways in April, 2017. The ex-pair made their relationship public in March, 2015 despite having hooked up in September, 2014.

Initial reports suggested that Vanessa Mdee had cheated on Jux – and that was why their love boat capsized. Mdee, however, refutes those claims.


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