She has an impeccable sense of fashion, flawless skin and voluptuous curves thanks to the copious resources she uses in taking care of her body.
She radiates success and great vitality, the only thing betraying her true age are the eyes. They look wiser, devious and devoid of any innocence. She prefers younger lovers to those her age. Society openly demonises such women, but are they really that bad?
Cougars are on the prowl, enticing younger men with their obscene wealth in exchange for companionship. Most times she is recently divorced therefore seeking validation that she is still sexy and what’s a better way of doing that than hitching an effervescent young lover? The following are 6 advantages of dating an older woman!
1) No pressure about settling down
Dating a young lady is exhilarating until she turns 24! Something strange happens to ladies when they clock this age.
The funky girl you once knew turns into a complete stranger overnight. A chick who used to party Monday to Friday suddenly tones it down. She gets serious with her career, becomes religious or develops a strong affinity for babies yet months before she couldn’t stand any. You choose to ignore this until she wakes you up in the middle of the night with a staid look on her face.
She asks: “Baby, do you really love me?”
“Of course I do,” You mumble half-sleep and pull the duvet closer.
She doesn’t catch the hint, and she continues with the discussion: “Do you want to spend the rest of your life with me? I’m 24 now & not becoming any younger. I need to know whether you are serious with me!”
“I am serious that’s why we are dating! Do you want us to get married like right now? You know I need to complete my masters and get a better job right?” you respond.
“I know, but what if it takes time and I grow old only for you get a young & pretty lady and forget all about me?”
You solemnly swear to stick by her to the end of time, however things will never be the same again. She develops great expectations and embarks on a mission to transform you into her dream husband and father to her future kids.
A Cougar has been married before, had a few kids and probably a failed marriage so the last thing she wants is a wedding. She is, therefore, a lot more understanding. Cougars rarely pressure you for a lifetime commitment in fact encourages you to live wild and free.
2) Display high levels of maturity
A cougar won’t bother you with unnecessary female trivialities. She won’t get mad at you for forgetting your anniversary or sending her birthday wishes at 9am instead of midnight. She understands that as a man you need time alone consequently giving you space.
Older women are assertive and display high levels of maturity. She knows exactly what she wants and goes after it. She doesn’t play games with you like feigning pregnancy to hold you hostage in the relationship.
Having lived quite a while they approach relationship problems a lot more soberly. The emphasis would be on how to solve the problem not engage in a blame game.
Also, a sugar mummy is smart enough to subtle influence you to becoming better without throwing tantrums or issuing ultimatums. An older lover is easier to deal with since you both clearly know what you gain from the relationship. Should it fail to work you both walk away without creating much fuss.
3) Career advancement and connections
Being a young man in such a competitive world isn’t easy since a lady with same qualifications would most likely be hired over you for most jobs.
Having an older lover who is at the prime of her career can be a game changer. You get to have unfettered access to her close friends and valuable contacts. If you use this opportunity well, then you can easily clinch a rewarding contract and tap into her vast pool of experts for help in realizing an idea. If you both work in the same industry then she can play god, pulling strings so you scale the career ladder much faster.
For a young entrepreneur or an upcoming artiste this is a once in a lifetime bonanza you just cannot let go to waste. Starting out is tough, but when you have her patronage fewer doors would be slammed at your face giving you a competitive advantage.
You can use this opportunity to create a viable business so in the event you fall out of favor you will have a soft landing.
4) Life experience
How many young girls can you have an honestly and great conversation with? From experience, I can tell you they’re very few!
Having gone through the whole transition from childhood to adulthood a cougar’s insight towards life is quite different. Interacting with her, one is bound to broaden their scope of thinking and learn how to deal with issues like loss, love and parenthood.
Ignited by a sense of adventure and bankrolled by her money, you will get a taste of luxury that other people your age never get to experience. You will get to visit interesting places, dine at exotic restaurants and enjoy tons of privileges thanks to your association with her.
Cougars are passionate lovers who readily teach you the art making you a better lover in addition to boosting your ego.
5) Financial gain
Financial gain is the greatest motivation for any young man interested in dating a sugar mummy. This is because they are generous to a fault, showering one with expensive gifts and favors.
The relationship is simply a business transaction. You fulfill her sexual fantasies and offer her companionship in exchange for legal tender.
Most cougars will give you a car registered to them and rent you a nice apartment but in the event you fall out the car is repossessed and you kicked out of the place.
You can use her money to acquire every tech-gadget you fancy, afford high-end fashion and still have some left to awe impressionable younger women. Any man who has taken an older woman for a lover can attest to the fact that It feels good to have someone else cater for most of your financial needs.
6) The thrill
Romantic relationships between young men and older women a greatly frowned upon by the society, but this disapproval only serves to making them even more attractive. Men love the chase, and all the sneaking round involved in dating an older woman satisfies this urge.
Cougars have insatiable sexual urges and their prowess at the sack cannot be overstated. Since they have learnt to accept and live with their less appealing features, they are confident about their bodies. Such women have no qualms fulfilling your wildest fantasies, and this is something which most young ladies wouldn’t.
Guys, have you ever had a fling with an older woman? How would you compare that to dating younger women?
This article was written by Mark Maina. Mark is graduate civil engineer, entrepreneur and a lifestyle blogger at www.markmaish.com.
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